Working Girl

"Congratulations, Isla! You are hired ! " the HR manager said. I couldn't believe it ! I did it !! I was ecstatic ."Please come back tomorrow at 9 am for your pre- employment briefing , and welcome to datesofasia.   

I half-ran, half-danced through the imposing glass doors..I needed to smoke .I rummaged through my bag for a cigarette and lit one .I was inhaling the smoke deeply into my lungs .I needed to call someone .

My hands were trembling when I dialed his number ."Jet , I got hired ." .I said .

"That's wonderful sweety , I'm so proud of you." he replied ..

I was already walking outside the company gates and continued talking to him .All those months of hard work and practice paid off .I had trained very hard perfecting my English communication and writing skills to get the job I had been hoping for , a blog writer  for an Asian Dating Site.

"Jet, you can tell your mom that I'm not only good for doing laundry and washing dishes. I can be whatever I want to be , only if I work very hard for it .

"He didn't reply..The tears that were threatening to fall were falling freely now ..I was walking along the road , talking on the phone , and crying like a baby..

"You will have to tell her that, sweety. She wants to see you . She is very ill "he said .

"Jet ,I hope you understand that I don't ever wanna see her , or speak to her again , after all the things she has said and done to me ". Flashbacks of his mom, with a kitchen knife in hand made me feel very weak.

I didn't like where the conversation was heading ..


By that time, I had already reached the main gate of the business park , where the companies were located .I was out on open road now , traffic, people, dust and smog .I could barely hear his voice on the phone ."

Jet , I need to go now , I can barely hear you ". I had raised my voice up a notch , amidst the noise of traffic , and throngs of people .

"Ok. I'll call you later "he repiled. "Meanwhile, you go out and celebrate .Treat yourself .Reward yourself  for a job well done",he said.

I had disconnected the call and was walking by the side of a busy road .Thinking and remembering what had transpired in the past. The events that made me leave that place so hastily .To leave the man I loved .I suddenly didn't feel like celebrating at all. I just wanted to go home , lie down, and cry .

I was mindlessly crossing the road , when I saw a yellow car speeding toward me .

It was moving too fast, I froze..I just stood there, transfixed , horrified .

And the last thing I heard was a girl scream before I blacked out.

Safety Tips For Online Dating

After you have sucessfully registered on date of asia.com , it is important to practice several safety tips for dating online. This ensures that you can enjoy the excitement of dating, while protecting yourself from any potential perils or losses.

Filter the  personal information that you give out . This includes your last name, home address, work address, phone numbers, and other personal information.

Never purchase anything from someone else. Also, never give out your social security number and other sensitive information

Only meet with someone once you feel comfortable with that person. You should always choose a first meeting spot that is a public place. For example, a public park, a restaurant or a coffee shop are ideal public places.

Never let someone you just met online drive you home until you feel that they are trustworthy. Always trust your intuition. If you take a cab, always take note of the cab’s plate number , and text it to a friend or family member .

Always bring your cellphone .

Always tell a few friends or relatives about your date beforehand. Tell them what time you will be meeting, the venue, and other possible places you will be going to.

Thousands of people have found their soul mate, special friend, or even lifetime partner. by joining date of Asia . Regardless of what you are looking for in a relationship, online dating can provide you with that unique and lasting experience in your life.

How To Find A Good Dating Site

Oh how we wish that we have a more exciting and rewarding social life,since much of our lives is spent at work, house work , yard work , and other obligations.

We do not get much time for ourselves, but when we do, we want someone to share it with.

Therefore, no matter how hectic your life is , an online dating site is the fastest and easiest way to meet  people who share your interests and hobbies.

As most things in life, not all online dating sites are created equal. There are certain criteria that you should look for in an online dating site. And so far, based on my research , date of Asia  is one of the most popular and wholesome sites that caters primarily, but not limited to , Asian women looking friends or lifetime partners .

If you look at the site’s physical construction it has no jagged fonts, no missing graphics, and it has a nice , appealing web front design. The website itself is devoid of clutter , making the site interface very user-friendly.

Dating sites that lack attention to detail may  also lack  safety and security features.

Always check to see an online dating sites affiliations. Who the dating site is affiliated with provides insights into what type of dating site you are dealing with.

Before you start your date in Asia registration , always view the sample profiles . Just remember that if the sample profile looks and sounds too good to be true, then it probably is.

Also, take time to read the site’s privacy disclosure or statement at the bottom of the page. That is one good indicator that the dating site is legitimate.

Overcome Your Shyness.Find A Date Online

Imagine yourself at a party and you’re the only person sitting at the table who isn’t part of the conversation. Every time you attempt to speak , you get interrupted by someone else or even worse, ignored. And the more you try to take part of the conversation , the more awkward things get.

So you stare off into party limbo, pretend to be engrossed in your food and drink, and pull out your smartphone and start playing with it ( this is very common ).

No matter how shy you claim to be, and no matter how you would like to sit on the sidelines and be left alone, nobody wants to be ignored.

But did you know that the art of talking to strangers, is a learnable skill?

Through practice, you can go from a wall paper , to choosing your own adventure, by taking massive actions to meet new people. Get out of your tiny ,comfortable little shyness bubble and make that first move to meet people.

I used to be extremely introverted when I was growing up due to some social insecurities that I had back then. I could not even get myself to look people straight into the eyes and say “Hi”. Looking back, I realized that the reason for my shyness was due to the fact that I was afraid of being rejected, or laughed at.

But that has all changed now. I took a giant leap out of my cocoon and introduced myself to the world of online dating. I felt that this was the perfect medium to help me overcome my shyness. My goal at first was not to date. It was to meet as many people as possible. Where else would I  get one-on-one time with a total stranger without having to meet them first ? I then registered at www.datesofasia.com a free site that caters to Asian women looking for romantic or friendly associations.

And it sure did help me overcome my shyness. It helped me save the difficulty of having to introduce myself simply because my information is already published in my profile. It was also very convenient for me because I can browse through profiles of other members and find out about their own pursuits and interests. And the best part of it is that I can simply sit in front of my computer and talk to people at my leisure.

Since then, I have met a lot of interesting people , been to many different places , and has been transformed from a woodworm , to a social butterfly.

Why Are Good Girls Attracted To Bad Boys ?

Today, I visited a chat room in www.date inasia.com , one of the dating sites I am registered at , and I couldn’t help but notice that the men who talked dirty, who displayed very poor chat manners were the guys who got the most responses from women.

Is it because of the bad boy phenomenon ? Why are good girls attracted to bad boys? What do women see in these rogues ?

First, let me define my own understanding of bad boys.

There are the seriously bad apples who have regular run-ins with the law, drug-users , and those that get arrested for violent acts.These are the thugs and murderers sitting in jail cells all around the world  who are constantly inundated with letters from women declaring love and even proposing marriage .

And then there’s the mischief-makers who enjoy breaking rules just because they’re there. So they drive too fast, engage in risky behavior, and seek out danger.  The thrill seekers.

So here’s my take on this.

These girls had a father who was a little bit on the wild side and because these girls idealize their father, they may seek a partner with similar traits.

Another reason is because It’s always a challenge for women to reform an incorrigible man. Talk about “motherly instincts”.

Other women like the excitement, thrill, and sense of danger bad boys bring. This is especially true for those who have been “good girls” all their lives. So they’re intrigued with men who defy rules and shrug off responsibility .

However , despite the initial attraction, most women get tired of bailing a bad boy out of jail, wondering if he’ll make it home from a party, or catching him with another woman. And once the allure of a bad boy begins to wane, women will retaliate and give them the treatment that a bad boy deserves.

And how do these relationships usually turn out?

Very poorly, I surmise. Because bad boys will always be bad boys and they will never change unless they want to. And many women learn the hard way that these bad apples are not good to eat and that bad boys make , yeah, bad partners.

I was lost in thought when I noticed the cursor highlighted and blinking, signalling an incoming chat message.

The message was from one of the bad boys in the chatroom , asking me if I cared to chat with him privately.

" I'm not big on eating bad apples" I thought. 

So I politely declined his invitation and left the chat room.

Online Dating Sites. Why People Use Them

Many people turn to online dating because they simply don’t have the time to date in the traditional sense.These people use online dating services like the date of Asia website as a venue that allows them to browse through pages upon pages of attractive Asian ladies .In their search though, they may encounter some minor encumbrances.

Some of these people have different commitments in their lives, and online dating isn’t always at the top of their priority list.When you message someone ,sometimes you’ll receive responses right away and sometimes , you probably won’t even get a response. That means they may not have the time to answer every single message they receive in their inbox

Don’t let that discourage you. That is not a personal reflection on you. Please take note, these women frequently receive messages that are sexually crude or mean and nasty. Since most of these women are seeking long-term relationships, this type of behavior often causes them to interact only with the men they are interested in.

The bottom line is , dating may not be a walk in the park , but remember you’re still a worthy date for someone out there. You just need to have the patience to find that person.

Also, keep in mind that online dating can be discouraging because the ratio of males/female is unbalanced. Men hardly ever receive responses to their messages, while women’s inboxes are filled with messages every day.

Should you be rejected,  you should gracefully accept the harsh reality of online dating and not let it drive you to bitterness. Don’t allow discouragement to affect the way you interact with people on the site you’re using.

It may also be a good idea to send lots and lots of messages to possible candidates.

Remember, just like joining the lottery, the more entries, the more chances of winning.

How To Tell If Your Girlfriend Really Loves You

If you’re engaged in a long-distance relationship with an Asian girlfriend, who lives half a world away , you must be wondering if she’s really in love with you and not only after your hard-earned money. After all, you’re not there to be with her all the time and you maybe wondering if she’s not trying to pull a fast one on you.

You can easily tell if  she’s in love with you when :

She is deeply concerned when you rant and rave or confide about something .

She patiently listens to your complaints about work and the stresses of life and she genuinely sounds concerned.

She will make subtle hints about building a future with you in it.

She is  proud to be with you and can’t wait to show you off to her friends and family. She  wants to know more about you, your family , friends , work , hobbies.

She is  extremely curious, sincerely and profoundly interested in every aspect of your life, asking about your day, wanting to know everything about your childhood, your family, and things that happened in your life that made you the man you are today .

She likes to get in touch with you very often. You receive numerous emails from her all throughout the day in which the letters are filled with sweet words of love and affection.

She likes to talk and chat with you for long hours and never looks bored.

She may incessantly send you text or email messages non-stop, to the point that you may want to put her in your block list.

She may stalk your facebook page , asian women dating sites ,or any site that you frequently visit, following your trail all over the internet.

If you notice all these signs in your lady love , make her even more happier  and don’t let her wait any more.